{"id":10973,"date":"2016-05-15T08:31:16","date_gmt":"2016-05-15T14:31:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coolchecks.net\/blog\/?p=10973"},"modified":"2016-05-13T12:32:53","modified_gmt":"2016-05-13T18:32:53","slug":"returning-work-post-divorce-follow-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coolchecks.net\/blog\/searching-for-jobs\/returning-work-post-divorce-follow-tips.html","title":{"rendered":"Returning To Work Post-Divorce?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Tips<\/a>
Tips on finding a job after divorce.<\/figcaption><\/figure>Divorce is a difficult, life-changing event and when a newly single mom must return to work, it can be challenging. She will be competing with people who are more settled and more emotionally secure, including men who often get first dibs on the available jobs in the best of times.<\/p>\n

These suggestions may be helpful if you find yourself in this situation:<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Hamper Yourself With Conventional \u201cRealism\u201d<\/h2>\n

Be open to a wider potential. When people with good intentions come up with discouraging comments about the difficulty of finding jobs \u201cat your age\u201d or predict that your earning ability will have nose-dived, don\u2019t listen. Put up a shield against the negatives and don\u2019t let yourself be boxed into limiting your possibilities before you even get started. Allow yourself to think in terms of success and even happiness. <\/p>\n

Starting Over Again May Invite A Whole New Direction<\/h2>\n

If you were a project manager before marriage, there is no reason to think you can\u2019t look at something different. Reinvent yourself. Write a list of the all the jobs you have ever considered and jobs that other women have that your find attractive and give them some thought. Then follow your heart, even if it means more training.<\/p>\n

Beware Of Inner Dialogue That Is Fearful And Cautious<\/h2>\n

Grabbing the first job that is available is a defeatist approach. Picture yourself as confident and proactive and imagine you have super powers. Have fun with the notion. <\/p>\n

Cast The Net Wide<\/h2>\n

When you are considering college, the advice is to have three tiers of choices: the one you really want, a second choice and a fall-back position if the first two don\u2019t materialize. Approach the job search in the same way. A human resources person may not offer the job you had your heart set on, but might see another opportunity in your resume. Be flexible. <\/p>\n

Be Excited<\/h2>\n

Imagine yourself as a powerful woman who goes after what she wants. Focus on that objective. Expect to be excited and look forward to what will make you happy. Then aim for that goal. <\/p>\n

Do The Routine<\/h2>\n

Study the listings and send resumes. But have other possibilities as well. If there is a business in which you are interested, make an effort to talk with people who work there. Invite a manager to have an informal discussion. Go to job fairs, be creative and keep an open mind. <\/p>\n

Don’t Distress Over Resume<\/h2>\n

A resume is, of course, essential, but don\u2019t fret over it. If you think you need advice, set up an account with Linkedin.com or another aid to the job search. Get your name and a brief description of your work experience into circulation and begin to build contacts. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Pass Up A Job Opportunity That Calls For Some Skills<\/h2>\n

Don\u2019t confuse your comfort level with your true ability when it comes to technical skills. If a job description says you have to be Microsoft Word proficient, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to be a genius. You can improve on your base understanding of technology through a little additional training. Cheap or free classes are available through community colleges, public school systems and other resources. <\/p>\n

Network Like Crazy<\/h2>\n

Use your friends and family, professional associations, old co-workers. Use anyone in your acquaintance who might be useful in finding the job you want. <\/p>\n

Keep The Vision<\/h2>\n

It may take longer than you had hoped, but don\u2019t settle for less than you know you are capable of. Stay positive and keep the faith. You can succeed. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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